This is our cat, Josephine. She is almost two-and-a-half and was ever so slightly grumpy when the picture was taken because the curtain was on her head. Sometimes when I take her picture, her eyes glow.
I’ve loved cats since I was not even three. My mother pointed out the kitchen window and said, “That’s a cat.” And I said, “I want one.” I still remember her light, pattering, mommy laughter at my request. It is noteworthy to point out that I cared not a jot about the first dog I saw. I did, however, want to keep the day-old baby chick my brother brought home to show me when he worked at an egg hatchery one summer.
I’ve loved many a cat in my time. We (my husband, Ray, and I) lost our black shorthair, Magic, and our grey and white long hair, Kirby, in 2006. We both grieved, but, for whatever reason, I got lost in grief for a long time. I said No More Cats. Ever. Six-and-a-half years went by before I realized I was really saying No to Life. Finally, the loving Creator of the Universe decided enough was enough.
On a penetratingly cold, raining, snowing, sleeting day in March 2013, husband drove me to Hobby Lobby to buy yarn. We came home with a five month old withdrawn, feral, injured, tortoiseshell, girl kitten. I was Not Happy as we made our way back from PetSmart. Neither was she. Husband, on the other hand, was an instant Cat Daddy.
I named her Josephine (after the volatile character, Josephine March, in Little Women). What. A. Handful. It took months and months and months for her to come around, but come around she did. And, so did I. Later, when I renamed my blog, I called it Josephina Ballerina after her dancing ways.
An endearment I’ve applied to every cat I’ve ever had is Glow Eyes. A veterinary ophthalmologist named Cynthia Powell was interviewed on National Public Radio. Dr. Powell said something like: a lot of animals -especially ones that go out at night- have a light-reflecting surface right behind their retinas, called the tapetum lucidum, that helps animals see better in the dark. When light enters the eye, it’s supposed to hit a photoreceptor that transmits the information to the brain. But sometimes the light misses the photoreceptor, so the tapetum lucidum acts as a mirror to bounce it back for a second chance.
How cool is that?! So here’s to Second Chances with Light and Life. And Happy Birthday 2.5, Darling Josephine! 🙂
Happy Birthday to a sweet kitty – even if she was a little grumpy. I’d be grumpy if the curtain was on my head too.
Happy birthday from me too – what a lucky kitten to find you.
Happy birthday to Josephine!
Happy Birthday to Josephine! How wonderful that you both get a second chance.
…and welcome back to internet-land.
Birthday Huzzahs, Jo – Jo!
Loved this post Maureen. What a great day for both of you. I like that… second chances! I’m glad you’re back. Are you feeling better now?
I’m much like you were, grieving for a lost loved one. I did so well the first year after my daughter’s death, but seem to have lost interest in much of life since then. Not consciously, but it has happened. I’m struggling to get it back. It’s hard to explain because I have such a wonderful life. And family. And friends. It’s good. A part of me must have died when my daughter died. I hope my second chance comes along soon!
I’m so glad you allowed Josephine into your life, she’s adorable and just looks so sweet.
Happy Birthday to Josephina; glad to see you are posting again and hope this means you are feeling better, Maureen. It seems that this kitty was meant to find her way to your home.
She is such a sweet and pretty kitty! You are both blessed to have one another 🙂
It was wonderful visiting you, dear Maureen! I have missed you. Love and hugs!
Such a sweet kitty :))
These eyes are beautiful :))
she is so very sweet and i know she brings you much joy!! she photographs well!!!!!! happy birthday kitty!!!
Glad to see you are back, Maureen! Hope you are recovered from your fall! I love that you opened your heart to this sweet and challenging kitty. It sounds like you both needed each other! I fully believe that these relationships are not by chance – you were meant to be. She’s a beauty. Hugs xo Karen
Hello Maureen and happy kitty birthday. So glad to see this post and know that you are OK. xx
What a lovely post! Josephine is such a pretty cat and lucky to have found you
Just checking in to see how things are going – haven’t heard much from you and I think about you often. Hope all is ok.
Love ur blog! I don’t know much about blogging. Loved ur dancing vid of the guy in front of the window. That was awesome!
It was great running into u today.
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